Looking back on it now, it was just a bit of drama over nothing...well actually it was me penting little things up that then pushed me to momentary craziness, but last week after nearly 8 months my lovely boy and I had our first fight!
Not actually something to be proud of, but every couple has tiffs throughout their lives so it was bound to happen, what I am actually proud of is that it took that long. A few harsh words were said, as quoted from BF 'you got shitty and was mean and I was snippy back' and it was late at night, after a crap nights sleep, a day of running everything through in my head, a nap (so that I could stop being grumpy) we sat down and talked it out, the way it should always be done.
I love him more each and every day we are together and I consider myself extremely lucky to have found my perfect match. When I go into my 'expressive/ expressive' mode (learned this little nugget from personality training we did at work) he stays calm, he is less expressive than myself and I can get frustrated because he doesn't talk as much as I do.....but we are both learning day by day. And the one lesson I have truly learned, all really good relationships are based on love, friendship and compromise......and laughing with your partner everyday. So if you have one as good as mine, you will understand what I am saying and if you don't yet, relax that used to be me, and one day you will find your perfect match too!
